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Life On Sutton Place is a bit out of sorts.
My father-in-law passed away yesterday afternoon.
He was surrounded by his family and went peacefully.
He was finally ready and at the age of 94 had led a full life.
Some people might say his passing was a blessing…
and maybe it was.
But we will still miss him…we will still be sorry he is gone.
My kids are sad and that in itself breaks my heart.
I know life goes on when a loved one is lost.
It’s hard though and it takes time to adjust.
I have to be gone from my blog for a while.
I’m not sure when I’ll be back.
Hopefully when things are sorted out I will be ready to write again.
Thank you for listening…


Thoughts from my friends...

  1. 1

    oh I'm so sorry to hear this, its always hard, even if their time has come as his after a long life.We always grieve, please know that my thoughts are with you and your family.I wish I was closer maybe there would be something I might be able to help with, take care and come back when you are ready, we will miss you.

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    Yes, it doesn't matter how long a life, how ready they are – we still always miss them… Take care.

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    Richard Cottrell says:

    Sorry, we are never ready for a loss. You will be in my thoughts. Take care and hope you get through this . Richard from My Old Historic House

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    Sweet Posy Dreams says:

    I'm so sorry for your loss. My mother-in-law passed away a couple of weeks ago. It is hard, no matter their age.

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    Oh, I'm so very sorry. I knew he was ill and hope that you're family finds the closure that it needs now.

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    Pam@OurAdventuresInHomeImprovement says:

    I'm so sorry for your loss Ann. It's always sad to lose a loved one. Your family will be in my prayers.

    Take care,
    Pam

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    Tammy@Beatrice Banks says:

    I'm so sorry. There's just never an easy time to lose a loved one. My father in law passed away several years ago and we miss him so terribly. Just take all the time you need sweet girl. Some things in life are more important. We'll be here when you feel up to it.
    Hugs,
    Tammy

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    Coastal Cottage Dreams says:

    Ann:

    So sorry to hear about your father-in-law. You are in my thoughts. Take care.

    Kelly

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    At The Picket Fence says:

    Oh, Ann I am so sorry! A loss is a loss even when it is of someone who has led a long and full life. Our prayers will be with all of you and we will be here when you return. :-)
    Vanessa

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    Michele @ The Nest at Finch Rest says:

    Oh dear Ann,

    I am so truly sorry for your loss. We lost my FIL last fall – and things just haven't been the same.

    May you find comfort in the love and faith you share with family and friends………and knowing 94 is certainly a wonderfully long life!

    Peace be with you and yours at this sad time.

    Hugs of friendship,

    Michele

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    Elizabeth (Blue Clear Sky) says:

    I am sorry for your family's loss. I hope that with each day it becomes a bit easier for you all. May you find comfort in the good memories and be sure to take the time you need.

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    My fil passed away 6 years ago. He was 90.

    Pamela
    WV

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    ❀❀❀Ðαωᾔ❀❀❀ says:

    Ann, so sorry for your loss. You are right life goes on, but you sure wonder how it does. I just lost my 92 year old grampa. I think of all the changes they have seen in there long life. It is quite amazing the tales they can tell. I'm sure you are having so many memories of your FIL about now. Prayers for you and your family.

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    Doreen - Hymns and Verses says:

    Ann,

    I've been following your blog for about a month, but this is my first post. You and your family are in my prayers!

    Doreen

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    Tanya@takesix says:

    No amount of "preparing or anticipating" helps ease the loss of a dear one. I'm sorry for your families loss Ann.

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    So sorry for you & yours @ this difficult time of loss. One comfort that has helped me thru these times (I have lost both parents & a sibling), is knowing that person will be in our future! Prayers for you Ann!

  17. 17

    Ann, I am so very sorry. I know that losing a loved one, no matter how old they may be, is difficult. I am thinking of you and your family. Take care.

  18. 18

    So sorry to read of your loss. I lost my in-laws within 18 months of each other. I like you were heart broken to see my children suffer the loss of their grandparents. You will be in my prayers.

  19. 19

    I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you. God Bless and take care.

  20. 20

    Ann, I am so sorry for your loss. Take care.

    Cynthia

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    Deneen@dreaming-n-color says:

    So sorry to hear Ann. I will pray for you and your family.

  22. 22
    Katie @ Wildwood Creek says:

    I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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    Grammy Goodwill says:

    I'm sorry for your loss, Ann. You were blessed to have him in your life for so long, but it sure makes it hard to say goodbye. All those years of memories will help comfort you eventually.

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    Sharon @ Elizabeth & Co. says:

    I'm so sorry for your loss Ann. No matter the age or circumstance, losing someone you love is hard and sad. Wishing you strength and comfort.

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    Kim @ Savvy Southern Style says:

    Anne, so sorry for your loss. It is tough watching kids hurt when they lose a grandparent.

    Hugs,
    Kim

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    Laura from Top This Top That says:

    Ann, Sorry to hear about your families loss. I hope you find comfort during this difficult time with the love of your family and the love you had for your father in-law.
    Laura

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    miss flibbertigibbet says:

    So sorry for your loss….what a wonderfully long life he had! That is such a blessing! prayers and love to you and your family!
    Blessings, Lorraine

  28. 28

    It's always sad to see someone go. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

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    I am so sorry to hear that your fil passed away, Ann. It doesn't matter how old the person is-if you are connected it leaves a hole in your life. I hope you can work through your grief and we will be looking forward to your return. Blessings- Diana

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    Shannon@Cozy Home Scenes says:

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your loved one, Ann. We recently lost a family member so I can understand your sadness and loss. Take care and come back when you are ready. We will be here. Fondly, Shannon

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    My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time. Blessings and hugs, Pamela

  32. 32

    Oh Ann. I'm so sorry for your deep loss. I know it is so difficult to work through. Big hugs from me and take all the time you need to get yourself feeling better.

  33. 33

    I'm so sorry for your loss Anne. It's never easy to say goodbye to a loved one, no matter the circumstances.

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    ℳartina @ Northern Nesting says:

    Ann I am so sorry for your families loss. It's never easy! You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

  35. 35

    Ann so sorry for your loss.
    Our heart goes out to you and your family. Take care.

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    Lizabeth @ Infuse With Liz says:

    So sorry Ann- we are never really ready for these things. I'm sorry for your loss but I hope you will find strength and comfort with your loved ones.
    You are in my thoughts, take care.
    Liz

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    GLENDA CHILDERS says:

    I am sorry, Ann, to hear of the loss of your sweet father.in.law. I am sending love and prayers as your family grieves. Take your time … we will be here when you are ready to blog again.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, Ann. You and your family will be in my thoughts. Take care.

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    Ann, I'm so sorry to hear of you loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Hugs,
    Babs

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    Ann….sending prayers your way. I am so sorry for your family's loss. Take care….

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    Blondie's Journal says:

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Ann. Your children will need you now, so it is understandable that you will be away from your blog. Please know I am thinking of you.

    XO,
    Jane

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    Jane@Cottage at the Crossroads says:

    Ann, I am so sorry to hear about your father-in-law's passing. Even though he lived a long life, you are never really prepared for this. Take comfort in knowing that he was surrounded by his loved ones and know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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    May God bless you during this time of loss. Life is rich. Loss of loved ones makes us focus on the beauty of that life that was lived, the relationships we have and what lies ahead for us all. It sometimes brings a deeper understanding of the person that has left us too.

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    I'm so sorry to hear this, Ann, and will be praying for you and your family.
    Blessings,
    Shelia ;)

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    Ivy and Elephants says:

    Dear Ann,
    We are so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can heal the pain, but just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    God's blessings upon you.
    Patti

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    Kelly Marie McKee says:

    So sorry for your loss. Sending good thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Losing loved ones is hard and a life adjustment no matter their age. Take care. We'll be here when you get back. :)

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    Grandma Barb's This and That says:

    So sorry for your loss Ann. Take all the time you need, we will be here when you come back. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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    Something Nice and Pretty says:

    It's never easy, take all the time you need Ann!

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    Yvonne @ StoneGable says:

    Ann I am so very sorry for your loss. It is a blessing that he lived such a long good life, but I am sure his passing is so very painful.
    I just prayed for you and your family. May you and your family find comfort and peace in His love!
    Yvonne

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    I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Hoping your family can find some comfort in remembering his many stories and spirit.

    I lost a very special grandparent last year. While I am thankful he no longer struggles with health issues, nothing about the loss feels like a blessing. :(

    Hold your family close and take care.

  51. 51

    Dearest Ann, I am so sorry.
    We all share in the loss of a loved one.
    xo bj

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    You and your family will be in my heart and prayers.

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    Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions says:

    I'm so sorry for your family's loss, Ann.

  54. 54

    I am so sorry for your families Loss Ann! Lots of love to you all.! XO

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    Ann@A Sentimental Life says:

    Ann, I am so sorry. It does not make a difference how old they were, they were still a father, grandfather that was loved dearly. I am sorry for your families pain. You will all be in my thoughts.

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    So very sorry for your loss. May God hold you and your family in the palm of his hand and help you through his difficult time. My prayers will be with you and your family.
    Linda,

  57. 57

    So sorry for your loss.

  58. 58

    Ann when you love someone it is never time to let them go. I am so sorry for your families sadness. Kathysue

  59. 59

    I am so sorry for your loss, Ann. You are definately in my thoughts and prayers.

    jodi

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    Will pray for all of you, especially your children as it may be their first experience of loss which is so difficult.

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    Ricki Jill Treleaven says:

    I am so sorry for your loss, Ann. I will pray for you and your family! I will be thinking of y'all.

    xo,
    RJ

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    Ann, I'm so sorry for your family's loss. God bless you and know you all are in my prayers.

    Sandy from Ohio

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    LISA'S LOVIN' IT says:

    We were sorry to hear about Bob's passing. What a highly regarded man he was in this town :) May God hold you & your family close. xo

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    Linda @ it all started with paint says:

    Ann,

    So sorry for your loss. You always hear those in-law horror stories so it's nice to feel all the love and affection you held for your father-in-law.

    You will be missed …

    Linda

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    Leigh Powell Hines (Hines-Sight Blog) says:

    Ann,

    I'm very sorry for your family's loss. I have been behind in my reading, and only discovered this today or I would have written sooner.

    My deepest sympathy.
    Leigh

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    Ann,

    I'm so sorry!

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    I thought something must have happened for you to be gone so long already. I for one will be here when you return. May God bless your family.
    Love and prayers, Cindy

  68. 68

    so sorry to hear of your loss. i will be thinking of you & your family. do take care & know you are in my thoughts & prayers. big hugs. (:

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    reFresh reStyle says:

    Ann, it's never easy, no matter the age. You and your family will be in my prayers.
    Hugs,
    Debbie

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    So sorry for your lost. We lost my father in law a few months ago and we are still trying to adjust. Big hug.

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    Ann, I'm so sorry for your loss. No one is ever ready to say goodbye, and losing a loved one leaves an empty hole. May you find peace in knowing he is in the best place and you will see him again! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Lynne

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    Jo's This and That says:

    sOrry for your lost.May you all having gods blessing for finding peace in your heart.

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    Anita @ Cedar Hill Ranch says:

    Ann, I'm sorry to hear that you family is going through this loss. Sounds like your father in law was a dear man. We went through losing my FIL a few years ago and last summer my MIL. We are selling their house and the closing is next month. It is emotional for us, and certainly the house sale will mark the end of an era. I hope your family finds peace in this situation.

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    Formerly known as Frau says:

    Ann I'm so sorry….thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. God bless. Hope youre back soon. We'll miss you.

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    Pat@Back Porch Musings says:

    I am just seeing this today, Ann. I want to add our condolences and let you know you and your family are in my thoughts.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss Ann….Take care.

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    anangloinquebec says:

    It is always hard to imagine that hollow space that you feel within when a loved one passes. Over time it will simply fill in with memories but for now you need to live the moment with those closest to you. Thinking of you Ann.

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