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After 14 years of creating content, I’m making a few heartfelt changes. Here’s what’s staying the same, what’s shifting, and why now feels like the right time.
It’s been a while since we’ve had a good heart-to-heart, so today I want to share a little about what’s been going on in my life, and let you know about some changes I’m making here on the blog.
This past year has been one of reflection and transition. It was this time last year that my dad passed away. He was ready to go, and I truly thought I was ready to let him go. But as many of you know, grief doesn’t always follow the path we expect. Not a day goes by that I don’t miss him…the talks we used to have, and the simple act of being there for him. He gave my life purpose, and even now, I’m still struggling to find my footing without him.
That said, I’m not writing this through a puddle of tears. I’m doing okay…but I am tired. And I’ve realized it’s time to make some changes. After weeks of thinking and planning, I’ve made a few decisions that I want to share with you.
First, I’m not ready to retire, and I’m certainly not ready to stop sharing here. This community means too much to me. But I am ready for a lighter load and more flexibility. I’m craving fewer deadlines and a little more breathing room.
To begin, I’ll be stepping away from Home Style Saturdays, Wednesday Wish List, and Fresh Baked. These series have brought me so much joy, and your support of them has meant the world. I just sent the last Fresh Baked, and I’ll be wrapping up the other two at the end of June.
As a result, I’ll be moving to two emails per week, which you’ll receive on Sundays and one other day, probably Wednesday. This new format will start in July, and will include everything you’ve come to expect…seasonal inspiration, my own rebranded version of The Wish List, my Simple Living journey, recipes, and the monthly digital calendars. I’ll still be here, but you will have a little less clutter in your inbox! I hope to offer ideas that feel more thoughtful, more connected, and maybe even more fun.
I’ll be honest…I don’t have everything figured out just yet. This new 2-emails-per-week format feels right for now, but I know it might need a little tweaking as time goes on. I’m giving myself the grace to experiment, to see what works, and to make adjustments along the way. If I feel like I want to send more (or less) than two emails a week, I’ll regroup and keep moving forward. I’ve learned that it’s okay not to have all the answers…but I will keep showing up with purpose and heart.
I’ve been creating content here for many years, and I’ve truly loved every step along the way. What began as a simple creative outlet has grown into something more meaningful than I ever imagined. I never thought it would be possible to earn a real living doing something I love…and that’s only been possible because of you. Your encouragement and continued presence have carried me through the highs and the lows. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I’m so grateful to still be here…and who knows? Maybe the best is yet to come.
P.S. If there’s something you’ve always wondered about…whether it’s how I do things around my home, a decorating dilemma, or even a recipe you’d love to see, please leave a comment and let me know. I’d truly love to hear your ideas!
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I look forward to following this new, more relaxed chapter of your life. Many blessings as you make it all happen.
Although I will miss seeing your posts on Wednesdays and Saturdays, I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself. Grief is so different for everyone and so hard! I still miss my mom even though it’s been 8 years since we lost her. She was also ready after almost 92 years of an amazing life, but there are times, when good and bad happens to me, that the first thing I think is I need to call mom and tell her. It gets easier but it doesn’t go away.
Give yourself grace and take care of yourself.
I was one of your first subscribers and even bought some decorative plates from you that you were getting rid of. That was many many years ago and they still hang on my wall. I love that you’re focusing on simplifying as a direction. I will be quite honest, I actually grew very tired of the Wednesday Wish List as I saw it as a way to over promote consumerism and buying what we really don’t need as well as it felt like it was simply a way for bloggers to earn money off of us. So I quit reading it. I look forward to the changes and to see where it leads.
Dear Ann, I’m a little late to the party, but I truly understand the changes you are making! I myself have a crazy life right now-being present for my husband battling cancer, and helping my kids,with their kids. All things I WANT to do, but sometimes there’s not enough time in the day for me. Thus, I’m very happy that you are taking time for yourself and I might be able to read all your emails on time with your plan for “condensing” all of your recipes, home tips, and styling/shopping ideas. I’ve loved your blog for years and hope to continue seeing it. You do what’s best for you and take care of yourself.
Sending best wishes your way,
Connie Corr
Your recipes are my go to. Easy and delicious
Ann, I am happy that you are being less busy. You need this! I have enjoyed each post that you have shared and your recipes are such “keepers”! I lost my precious Dad in 1996. Dad served in WW11 and was left with an artificial leg plus shrapnel that we knew would eventually take him with a massive heart attack. I know that Dads and daughters share a very special bond and when a Dad passes away, the loss is so great and, at times, unbearable. It is so hard to navigate life life without a Dad. There was not a day went by without talking with my dear and precious Dad. When you love your Dad so much, your loss is great. There is never a day goes by without thinking about him. My Dad was my Hero! Ann, I know how much you miss your Dad. Just keep those precious memories close as they become more precious as the days go by.
I know you will appreciate have more time to just do the things that you would like to do without having time constraints with your blog. Just enjoy this time and whenever you post, we will always be here to read them!
Just want to say a big thank-you for all you do for your readers. We appreciate you so much! May you be blessed with wonderful days ahead! Will keep you in my prayers, Ann!
Aww Ann… I’m always in awe of work a content creator does and the deadlines involved. A death of someone special should bring a shift in priorities and perspective. I’m glad you are taking more time for you. Someone already mentioned exactly what I’ve felt about your blog… a gentleness, it never felt overwhelming. Your kindness shines my friend.
Hugs in your grief. I lost my Mum 50 years ago at 20 and I miss her today like I missed then. No one loves you like a parent! Enjoy some extra time now, looking forward to what’s to come. I know it will be great❤️🇨🇦
I would love a neutral white/cream paint colour for living room inspiration . Also a new couch colour . White, cream or light grey. I’m so confused about the colour choice…don’t want to make a mistake! Thank you ❤️
I really like your blog, simple and easy, things almost anyone can do. You have a beautiful home, lovely garden, and your writing is peaceful. It has been calming to read your post. I have not read wishlist Wednesdays for quite a while, I just am old enough to want less, and am unloading more of my things these days, and to be honest most of my wishes have been granted! If you gave a recommendation for a product I needed I would take your word for it, as you have built trust with your post and content. That said, I will look forward to the post that you continue to write. I lost my dad when I was 38 and he was 64, it was difficult, it really hurt! An older gentleman told me I could continue to talk to him, I just would not always hear his answers, from that day on in my mind I continued to talk with my dad. Take care of yourself and thank you for a wonderful blog
Thank you, Ann, for sharing your heart and your plans for the blog. I admire you and see the value in taking care of yourself and doing what seems right for you, first. I’ve so enjoyed your content over the years and look forward to what you’ll be sharing in the future!
I appreciate you and all your have brought to this site. I am glad you are taking care of yourself. We will miss your frequent posts, but know you are doing what is best. Much love and gratitude.
Ann,
Life is fleeting as we all know. You’ve given so much of yourself to your followers. We will be happy with whatever you decide to continue giving us, and we look forward to following along as you decide what that journey looks like. May the Lord continue to comfort you as you continue to grieve your loss. Blessings on your day.
Have always enjoyed your posts. Enjoy the changes and rest up. You bring joy and great ideas to your posts. It’s okay to slow down. After my folks died, it took awhile to recenter myself. Then I lost an aunt who was like a sister a bit over 2 years ago. I’m still finding myself grieving. A road no one wants. But I’m ok and it’s a normal road when we lose loved ones. Not loving the stage of life bringing losses but thankful for the loved ones I have still. Thinking I’m prob a few out in line to be next…. Hoping that’s gonna be awhile!
Dear Ann,
Wishing you all the best as you follow your own advice of “simple living for a happy life”. I’ve been reading your blog posts for years and always look forward to your delicious recipes, beautiful seasonal decor and lovely gardening tips. I’m so pleased that you’ll continue to share your wonderful home and garden ideas when you can. I look forward to seeing you in my inbox soon!
Relax, Recharge and Refresh this summer!
Diane
Good for you. Wishing you a little time to experience some of the joy and fun you’ve brought to others over the years. Will still look forward to your inspiration and great recipes whenever you share them.
Praying for His peace for your hurting heart.
Good for you! It’s hard to know when to slow down versus quit all together. You will know retirement is the right choice. I fully support any changes you wish to make. Enjoy reading your blog and emails, you do inspire me!! Thank you and take good care of yourself!
Thanks for sharing your life with us. I love your style and everything about you seems relatable. I look forward to hearing from you twice a week (or whatever works out best for you).
take care and much joy to come in your life
I have enjoyed your style, inspiration and content for years. After experiencing losses of 3 very important people in my own life I totally understand. Sometimes it is good to stop, breathe and smell the roses. I look forward to your new posts.
Do what you must to make your life simple and easy. I have been following you for years and am grateful for all the helpful hints and inspiration you have given me over the years.
Hi Ann,
Thank you for blogging these many years, I have looked forward each week to reading your column and have learned so much from you! So many inspiring recipes, decorating ideas and life tips, loved your “quotes”, and the way you wrote, always made us feel you were speaking directly to us:) We wish you the very best in your new adventures, hoping you find whatever makes your heart full and happy! We look forward to hearing about your new journey.
Enjoy,
Cheryl
Dear Ann: As I’ve entered the fourth quarter of my life, and as much as I dislike any change to something I totally love, I think I understand how you feel. I’ve been taking your advice for quite a while now and have been trying to simplify my/our life. I was feeling overwhelmed and knew something had to change for me. I still make a list of what I’d like to accomplish each day but what doesn’t get done moves on to my next day’s list. I’m also getting much better at taking time out for my ‘want to’s’ and leaving what I’ve considered to be my ‘have to’s’ for later. I’m retired, for goodness sakes — I don’t have to be on a rigid schedule anymore, right?! I’m beginning to do what I want when I want and enjoying life more. It’s amazing how life keeps moving on even if the ‘have to’s’ aren’t ever done, ha ha. I thoroughly enjoy spending time with my sweet hubby and our grown children more than ever and with our wonderful almost twelve-year-old kitty, Ami, who is always by my side. I make time for my/our friendships and things I love to do like gardening, reading, sewing, quilting, crocheting, knitting, trying new recipes (I love all of yours), etc. I think I’m finally learning what “Take time to smell the roses” means. I think the world of you and know that any changes you make will be wonderful. We will all love them so don’t worry – take good care of yourself and we’ll continue to be your devoted fans.
Prayers and warm thoughts are coming your way!
Your blog has been an inspiration to me for many years. We all need to slow down at times. I look forward to your new chapter. Thank you for still including us.
I enjoy your posts immensely. I,too, lost my father and mother.Mom and Dad had a wonderful 72 years together. I hear their voices telling me to slow down and ENJOY this wonderful world which our Heavenly Father has given us. Thank you for your beautiful posts and I am greatful and look forward to seeing/ reading them when they arrive!
Fondly, D.C.
As life changed me, I totally understand! Enjoy stepping back and smelling the flowers along the way! I will catch up with you whenever the emails arrive and enjoy your company! Funny thing, I just said as much to my family – they don’t believe I will but I have let the dusting go and sweeping for once a week and started reading more and enjoying my crafts instead of hustling to do everything! I enjoy all you have shared with us – your family by blog!💐🩷
Good for you, Ann! I love your content but don’t know how you keep up with it! Not sure if you have grandkids yet, but once they come along, you’ll be glad you have more time for them! We will be looking forward to your “new way”.
Hi Ann ! It is always so good to hear from you ! And I know what you mean about loosing someone. I lost my husband last Juky 2024. He was sick for seven years and I cared for him all that time. So now I am getting ready to move on and deciding what to take is such a dufficult decision. In fact caring for Tom was much easier. But I must move on and packing boxes is a daily chore for me. I have invented a plan I call my P&P plan. Matching Product with People. I give things thatvI think my friends will enjoy and so far it has worked and brought lots of joy to others. I have no children and very little family so my friends are my life. Take Good Care and I will cherish every word I receive from you ! Irene Kelly
Ann~
Wishing you all the best on this curve in your journey. May it lead you to peace and new inspiration.
I hope you enjoy your new way of doing things. I also hope you’ll continue to put out the yearly calendars. I so enjoy those. Thanks and enjoy your new free time.
Please give yourself the gift of time to heal after losing a parent. It’s a deeper loss than I had expected. I lost both my parents within two years and both required nursing care. It was a time to be able to give them love and caring.
Put no time limit on… Give them the gift of your thoughts and prayers and gradually I hope you will feel better.
I love your blog and will miss not having it everyday. but I do understand that one needs to take care of themselves. I live in a small apartment and dream of living like you do. since I am near 80 there are things I can not have or do but seeing your ideas are just like mine in my mind. you give me such pleasure and I hope you will love your time and be glad you give so many people pleasure. we are behind you all the way.
Ann, I wish you all the best in this next journey in your life. Thanks for all the beautiful things you have been sharing with us all these years.
Ann, I wish you all the best in this next phase of your life. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge with us. I have enjoyed reading and learning from you. God bless you.
Ann, wishing you all the best as you ponder your next step in life. I have followed you for years, started because I grew up in Ohio! Have really enjoyed the information you shared. I understand about losing parents, still miss both my parents!
I have followed you for years and I love your stuff best! I will be happy with any content you send when ever you want to send it. I wish you peace. God bless you
We all come to a cross road in our lives at one time or another & we have to decide on a new direction ; I truly hope you find peace & comfort in your choice.
I’m glad that you are still maintaining your much enjoyed blog !
Blessings to you Ann!
There comes a time in our life when we all need more breathing room and personal time for ourselves. I applaud you for having the courage to take some time for yourself, and I am so thankful you will continue writing your blog. Sometimes I fall behind in reading yours and a couple of others. Your blog was the first one I started reading and by far my favorite. Blessings to you and your family.
Ann –
Thank you for the heartfelt update. Air hugs and crossed fingers for a gentle transition into your new blog format. I love your recipes, printables & decor ideas, and the creative touches you add to daily life. Follow your heart & we will keep following you; two emails from you per week is better than no emails!
I will particularly miss the Wednesday emails. I always find so much inspiration However I appreciate your honesty and your need to step back. I lost a brother 2 years ago and find the same struggles within. With grown children and grandchildren, I find it hard to “find” myself. One step forward at smile!
Bless you and be well.
Ann, I have enjoyed your posts for years. You are a friend coming into my home for a visit! Thank you for the wonderful ideas and suggestions over the years. I will continue to enjoy your posts whenever they come into my mailbox! Grief is a hard thing to bear. Each one of us has to deal with it the best way we can. We lost our youngest daughter to diabetics last year. Some days are terrible others I can smile and remember wonderful times. I will smile every time I see a post come into my inbox from you . My prayers are with you .
Hi Anne,
I always felt like you were a friend and mentor. I enjoy ur blog and decorating tips so much I might of copied a few😂.
Looking forward to what’s next, Especially what ur doing when ur taking time for yourself. I will be an empty nester in a few years😊.
Best of luck as you navigate the future. I’ll can’t wait to see the new format! XO
Margaret
Dear Ann:
I have only recently become part of your community. You truly are an inspiration. Your blog is informative -your decorating tips are beautiful and your recipes perfect.
Without boring you with too many details, due to Covid, I was forced to resign from my beloved career. It was tough but the only choice possible for me.
Of course, I was devastated. I soon came to realize that the tried and true euphemism “that God never closes a door that He doesn’t open a window” is so true. My parents’ health is in decline. I would have never been able to assist them to the degree I do without being now officially retired.
I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I will be facing this loss myself in the not so distant future. I can only imagine the how painful that part of my journey will be.
Take the time for yourself. Many of my friends have said that the only way to cope with loss is to “go through” it-in whatever time that takes or means for you to be able to focus on the beautiful memories of your Dad without a ”
“puddle”.
Be at peace that you were with him when he needed you. Be at peace with this “step back”. God has a plan always.
Be well. Joan
Dear Ann,
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your fabulous blog. Please take good care of yourself. I will look forward to reading whatever you post & whenever you decide is best for you. Grateful for you, all you create & share!
Dear Ann,
Always show grace to yourself. Take care of yourself and by extension, you continue to be able to care for your community. I always look forward your emails and posts-whenever you are able to send them.
My own father is 88 and beginning to show signs of dementia. It’s very hard to watch him struggle and I retired from my job in part to be present to help my mother care for him.
God bless and thank you for sharing with us!
I have followed you from the very beginning of blogging “On Sutton Place”. I too, had my blog “Mountain Mermaid” the
adventures of a Florida Beachy Girl in Mile High Denver Colorado!
I began in May of 2009
And continued until it no longer was fun.. the requirements became too restrictive for me!
We made the move back to Florida due my husbands health.
I am so very very proud of you bloggers KariAnne Wood,
Rhoda, Brenda at cozy little house who beat the odds and keep turning out wonderful reads continually!
I understand.. we were all so much younger and truthfully, we were excited about being bloggers!!
Your faithful followers will still be there eagerly awaiting your mext post!!
I have enjoyed all your emails and fully understand why you’re cutting back your activities.
The one I’ll miss the most is on Saturdays. I really looked forward to ws to read the other designers that were part of it. Is there a way they’ll continue and I can subscribe to it?
I wish you the very best as you start this new season of your life,
Sue
The best to you as you navigate through this difficult time.
Good for you, Ann. Do what’s best for you.
Oh Ann,
I read this post with tears. Loosing our parents is never easy.. I am so sorry for your loss. Even though it has been many years for me since loosing my parents I too still miss them often. My energy is so depleted from sadness from loss. I have lost three siblings in just over 5 years. One older and two younger. I have good days and difficult days. Two were in their early 60’s…just way too young. My hearts feels for the loss you are experiencing.
Thank you for alllll your hard work. You have inspired me always but really helped me as I processed downsizing last year. I for certain will continue to follow you and look forward to your posts… and those nummy recipes😋
Ann,
You have to listen to yourself and take care of you!
You’ve been a bright spot and will continue to be for so many.
Thank you and wishing you all the best.
Elese
Good for you. Recognizing when you need to adjust is so important. Missing a parent is hard. I lost my Dad thirteen years ago. Still miss him. Now my Mom has late stage dementia but I cherish time spent with her and dread her passing. She’s 94 and she still talks of missing her Mom and Dad.
Good for you—-priorities change for everyone. I know I want to spend less time on the computer and more time doing things I truly love like my crafts and spending time with family and friends. Life is short, change is good.
I truly understand cutting back and I’m glad you’re not totally going away because your blog is the only one I appreciate and enjoy. I don’t follow the other ones on Wednesday, so many times I didn’t read there’s. I look forward to your change.
I know the feeling of missing a parent, there are often times I see something, I do something and I want to share with my mother, she has been gone since 2007. But I do have very good memories and I share those times with my children.
Best wishes for you as you continue to travel this new road.
As a blogger for the past 6+ years, I totally understand the need to take a breather and readjust as necessary. Some days the inspiration is there and other days, not as much. I love your blog and am so happy that you are continuing on your own terms. I think you are making a wise decision to go back to your original format. I enjoyed that more than the homestyle Saturdays and wish list platforms. Good luck in everything and I will continue to be a faithful reader!
Ann,
I certainly understand. I just got back from my mom’s memorial service. She passed in May of 2025. My prayers are with you. Remember a day at a time.
Love all your content and remember, change is a good thing!
Your first step was the realization that you needed a change. Your next step was devising a plan of action. As you are remaining focused and flexible, may you find peace and relaxation through the decisions you have made. It sounds like you are well on your way. Well done!
I certainly understand, I lost my mom this year. My prayers are with you as you navigate through this. Give yourself some grace. I look forward to your new blogs.
Good Morning …..you are one of the first people I started reading it has nern a pleasure I have fell in love with some of you decorating ideas love the white decor and the flowers and the vessels you use to hold the flower ….I have change over the last 8 years from Green and Burgundy decor to cream and white and a little black I have also tryed a few of your recipes I have the strawberry butter in my fridge right now for blueberry waffles…..lol Yvonne and you has walked thou the steps to a peaceful home in white rugs with three dogs if you told me back in the day I would have said WHITE ?
Yes I have add the sage green a little this spring to change things up a little like your blue ….lol I have enjoyed reading you for a while Thank You
PS…..For my daughters birthday this year I ordered her Lavender Plants I in hope the grow and she gets to do some of your ideas …..one of them times I wished I lived close to her but we share a lot over the phone pics long talks and visits
Thank You for what you put out here for us to enjoy….
Eva
As time goes by, I also see the benefit of slowing down and enjoying life’s easy pace. It’s good to have a few things to keep us busy too. I hope your new adventures are what you’re looking for and I so appreciate that you’ll still be sharing your lovely monthly calendars. I get lots of compliments from friends that see them on my phone and I send them your way!
Thank you Ann for your heartfelt message. Truly understand. Life is all about changes as me move forward with it. So sorry about your dear Father. He will be your inspiration so hold on to it. Looking forward to getting the two emails in July. It will give me time to digest all the wonderful things you add to your blogg. All the Best!
Good thinking! I am overwhelmed with daily emails, even though I enjoy them. Twice a week is more than adequate. I spent all day yesterday deleting hundreds of emails I will never get to! Thank you, Ann, for your content! I’m 77 and still enjoy what you “young sprouts” come up with! Missing your Dad will never go away but the pain lessens over time. I also echo what many others have already said. Blessings to you!
I’m delighted for you. Taking a step away, reimagining your work, and coming to this conclusion must have been challenging, but I feel certain you’re doing the right thing.
I’m sorry for the loss of your father. I lost mine in 2008, and I know it was for the best, but just reading your post brought tears to my eyes, thinking of him. My heart goes out to you.
Enjoy this new iteration of your lovely newsletter!
Life has its ups and downs. Take the time to heal and have peace! Thank you for the content you share! Rejuvenate yourself so you will be your best version of you!
I love reading your content and seeing your lovely home. I think twice a week is perfect! I don’t have time to read the daily posts some influencers send–it is a bit overwhelming, for me at least. I am glad you aren’t going away and look forward to reading your posts a couple times a week!
Good for you! Take all the time you need! I’ll still be here enjoying your content whenever it works for your schedule!
Sounds like you’re making the best decision for you. We all need to be able to do that so I applaud you for it. It’s not always easy to walk away from things you enjoyed but when you know it’s time, you just have to do it. I hope these moves give you the peace you are seeking in your life.
You seem like a very open and honest lady. I think that losing a loved one can bring a new context into our lives or push us to make changes. I’ve enjoyed all of your ideas and recipes so thank you for all the time you spent sharing your talent with us! I’m wishing you all the best and I’ll look forward to your future emails and content. God bless you!
Your words gave me comfort….i lost my sweet mom this year. She was 102, and lived around the corner from us. A daily companion, and I have felt selfish saying that I have lost my purpose. Reading your words saying the same validated mine. Caring for my mom was a huge part of my life. I am still blessed with my sweet husband, children and grandchildren, but I have felt lost in the confusion of not caring for my mom. I repeat to myself to allow myself the grace to mourn and heal. I say these same words to you. I love your content and thank you for your transparency ❤️
I applaud your decision to slow down. I have been reading your blog since almost the beginning and will continue to read it until you quit.
Hi! I just want to say good for you! I love your blog but honestly I’m a bit tired of the weekly wish list and style Saturdays. I always felt the pressure of looking at all of them, even though it was self-imposed, I didn’t want to miss anything. I was also having difficulties with the website not playing well and freezing up so to have a less routine experience will be refreshing for me too! Wishing you the best of luck and looking forward to your new content!
Good luck. I enjoy your blog and will look forward to those in the future!
I have so enjoyed your posts. I’m almost 70 years old and you’ve taught me a lot. Thank you!!!!!
I’ve enjoyed your blog for years although I rarely comment. Totally understandable that you feel the need to make a shift. I’m happy to read about whatever you care to share and am also happy that you are going to continue just at a different pace. If you’re looking for suggestions to prompt posts, besides your usual content, I would enjoy hearing about your typical day (do you do things on a schedule, etc), healthy habits you employ – diet and exercise thoughts, staying healthy “after a certain age”, more recipes, more looks at your garden. If none of these strike you, please continue with the content you usually do as it’s worthwhile to your readers.
Best of luck with your new approach! I look forward to it.
Good to hear it will be fewer emails, it’s less interesting when you get too many
As time goes on we all have to make adjustments to lighten the load! Don’t worry we won’t abandon you! 14 years is a long time! I’ll still look forward to your neat ideas, yummy recipes, and whatever else you might come up with whenever you post!
Ann, you are brave sharing your story and feelings. Anyone who’s lost a loved one understands and can identify with you. My hope is that this new chapter in your life brings your mind, body, spirit and soul what they need.
With much appreciation for the many years of inspiration.
Continue to take care and nurture yourself.
We all have to do what is right for us in the life we are living. I have enjoyed what you have shared with us through the years, enjoy each day, remember the memories with your Dad and he will be smiling down on you.
Bless you! I understand the need for change. I had to make a lot of changes last year when my hubby was diagnosed with tongue/throat cancer. We are still traveling this journey with a recent surgery. We are doing well, and we are blessed, but we found out what “tired” really means. We were beyond tired, we were weary.
I lost my Daddy way back in 1995. I still miss him and find myself still wanting to share things with him. It will hurt less in time, but this missing will still be there.
I’m so glad you will still be sharing with us. I would miss you terribly if you gave our wonderful blog up.
My prayer is lifted today for your comfort and rest, for peace deep in your soul.
Sending you hugs!
Lila
So thankful that you are still going to be blogging. I have enjoyed you for years. With age comes wisdom. Glad you are wise enough to say I’m going to slow my pace. 😊
Ann, I am delighted with your new goals which will simplify your lifestyle and still give us your creative ideas, while at the same time helping simplify my life!! Thank you!!!
The changes sound good. I’m glad we’ll continue to get your emails!
I’m praying for you. And, I just thought about your ending to this email – Wishing You Laughter and Grace – that is so nice!
I read several years back:
G – God’s
R – Riches
A – At
C – Christ’s
E – Expense
I don’t know how you have accomplished everything that you have seems like you give so much to your website and blog that you may be missing out on other things. I’m glad for you that you’re cutting back and look forward to your once or twice a week emails Outstanding content enjoy any free time you can get. Thank you for a wonderful site.
Wishing you peace and grace on this new journey.
I have enjoyed following you and being inspired! I think there is much wisdom in knowing when to cut back, adjust and learn along the way. I appreciate your honesty as you have grieved throughout this past year and see the need to make some changes. It’s a great example for so many women to know it’s good to re-evaluate, to do things differently when needed and to do what is life giving in each stage of life.
Congratulations on your decision! I’m grateful you’re still creating content and sharing with us, but also know how important it is to do what’s best for you! Hugs!
Bless you for taking the time to give you the freedom to ‘take care of you’. It sounds like you’ll have a better balance–time doing what you love in connecting with your readers and time for you. I look forward to your new format!
I hope you get it all figured out, I’m sure you will. I still miss my dad, too. He passed in 1992
Ann, I enjoy your decorating, gardening, recipes-everything. You are so down to earth & seem like you could be my next door neighbor. I will enjoy your content as often as you send it! Meanwhile, take care of yourself & enjoy more time for your personal life. My best to you & congratulations on this next chapter, Ellie
Yes Ann, Simplicity is a good choice, and that theme has been ringing true for you for at least the last year now. It’s amazing how much more we realize we have, when we have less of everything. Especially more time to appreciate it. Thank you for all the recipes, decorating ideas and inspiration all these years. I’ll stay on this journey with you until the end. God bless.
It’s called “taking care of you.” I never seem to catch up these days, but I’ve always enjoyed your newsletters, regardless of all that’s “on my plate,” of which there is plenty. I try to always make time to read yours. Keep on keeping on. Sure would miss you if you quit. I appreciate all you post.
Dear Ann, Good letter! Thanks for sharing all of it in such a warm and personal way. I’ve always counted you among my favorite bloggers, loved (and tried) many of the recipes [e.g., Cornbread Casserole], and rely on your tasteful decorating and home decisions [e.g., the wallpaper in the laundry room which now hangs in our powder room]. Thank you for all of it, which you offer in your always-generous way. It’s been a pleasure and it’s great that we all will still have access in this new format. Best wishes. — Maureen
God bless you!
Bless you on this journey…I have loved seeing what you have on the Wednesday Wish list and getting ideas for what I may like…some things I didn’t even know I did!
Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. I appreciate all the work you have done for years. Taking time to take care of yourself is the most important thing you can do. Too many of us put others (family, friends, audience) ahead of our need to breathe. You are setting a good example! Bless you.
I have enjoyed your content for years and totally understand. It is hard losing a parent and that grief can come at unexpected times. Especially when you have spent a great deal with the parent. My mother has been gone over five years and there are many days where I miss her more than usual. Give yourself grace as you continue to grow and change during this time
Thank you for your posts. You are a source of wisdom in a super fast world. Great idea to do two posts a week. Even one is fine. If readers decide they want more, you have a good backlog of ideas and information they can access. I really like your Amazon site. It’s quick and easy to use, and I know I will get something I like. Thanks for being you. You’re great.
I have always enjoyed your posts; however, I think that twice or even once a week is plenty. I receive over 100 emails a day, and it’s almost impossible to keep up with all of them – even the ones I really love. I have some of your artwork framed in my house and love your style. Keep doing this as long as you enjoy it, but slowing down a bit is fine.
What is Fresh Baked?? You’re ending it and I don’t know that I’ve ever seen it – Boo Hoo. Lightening the load is always a good thing if you need it. All the best!
I wondered that same thing!
Ann, good for you! I’m so glad you’ve found a way to balance out dialing back without leaving us. I love receiving your content! You’ve given me peace, encouragement and creativity many times. Twice a week sounds perfect! Thank you for sharing your honesty, talents and home.
I’ve followed you and been a part of this community for many years and have always appreciated and enjoyed what you share in all the ways you do it. It sounds like you are entering a new and slower season of your life. I hope and pray for you that you find your peace. Whatever you share in the future and however often (or less often) you do I will look forward to it and know that I will enjoy them as I always have. Wishing you peace and contentment and joy.
Bless you for your honesty. I have loved your posts from the first time I discovered it and will continue to do so however many there will be. I love how your posts bring not only beauty, but a peaceful calmness with them that I enjoy each time. Life brings changes and we often must make our own changes along with it. I hope this next chapter helps bring you more time to enjoy family and the things you love.
“For every time there is a season,” when I was younger I simply did not understand that passage. Young, I thought every season WAS the time…because we think we are infinite when we are young. Stepping back and reorganizing any part of one’s life is a trial…an experiment…and not final. Enjoy your steps, and I’m sure it will work itself out. Hugs, enjoyed your posts for years, Sandi
Wishing you all the best! I will miss you being apart of Wednesday’s Wishlist! Take care🥰
Dear Ann,
I support your finding new ways to keep the joy in what you do. I’ll follow you in whatever way you choose. My dad passed in 2009. Not a day goes by that I don’t miss him or have conversations in my head. Grief doesn’t have rules or even guidelines. And then there’s the whole exploring your own mortality! Hang in there, you’re right where you need to be and we’ll be here for you and with you. ❤️
Ann, I congratulate you on this decision for so many reasons. Reflection is so important and I think for way too many of us it’s a foreign concept. One statement you made gave me pause when you said you weren’t sure of your purpose after the loss of your father. As one who has experienced great loss, I understand completely. My immediate family has been long gone, and unbelievably, my husband and I lost all three of our children in a four year span. People often ask me how I can continue to go on. I have no easy answers, but truly, how can I not go on? I have come to give myself the grace not to have a purpose beyond the present day. I try to find the beauty around me. I try not to dwell on the “what ifs”. They are a dangerous rabbit hole. And I try to always remember that we never know what effect we might have on someone who might be watching. So, I smile, I read, I remember the sweet times and I do my bit to carve a peaceful life for my husband of 57 years. Good luck and bless you.
Ann, If you remember, this is where it all started. You blogging and us reading. I bought the ceramic/bisque Christmas ornaments that you made. I have run off your mother’s pot roast recipe and the strawberry/graham cracker/cool whip recipe (which my family loves). I have copied the Christmas pictures you posted of “Merry Christmas etc. You had them in your foyer at Sutton Place House. I’ve printed recipe cards etc. You blog and I will read. Sometimes you just have to have a re-do and it’s ok. Whatever works for you will work for me. Thank you for all of your hard work.
Wishing you all the best as you move forward with a lighter load. Looking forward to your next post.
Ann, like you I have been craving simplicity. I hope you find it as well. I enjoy all of your content. I will miss Saturday Style but I’m glad you’re still posting content. Blessings
Hi Anne,
What a great decision you have made for yourself! Go find your peace and balance. I will continue to read your blog whether it comes once a week, once a month, etc…..you are truly inspirational ❤️
Hi Ann! Thank you for all of your hard work. I enjoy your blog very much and learn so much in each post. I look forward to your new format.
I would like to see more recipes for two. I try to cut your recipes in half when I can. My husband and I, being empty nesters, don’t always eat large meals or deserts. Please include ways to cook and bake for two.
I have followed your blog for quite a long time now, always enjoying your posts, whether they were decorating ideas, recipes or outdoor designs. It’s important to take time for yourself, regroup, and take a different path. I will continue to enjoy all your posts no matter how many days they arrive in my inbox. All the best to you!
I applaud and support your decision! Always one of your biggest fans!
I lost my dad 3 years ago and still miss him and our daily conversations everyday. I applaud you for making the changes which are best for you. I will look forward to your two posts per week. God bless you !
I totally understand the need to slow down! I will look forward to emails from you however you decide to do it. I appreciate all the work you put into your emails. Best to you.
I’ve followed you for a bit and rarely comment, but wanted to wish you well with this transition. It certainly is okay not to have all the answers! You sound well poised to adapt to what suits you for your future path. I look forward to what’s next.
Dear Ann,
Thank you for being my peaceful moment. You are my cup of coffee in the quiet of the morning before the day begins. Having lost both parents and two siblings, I truly understand the need to reset! But Know this – your father is with you and all you have to do is close your eyes for a quiet moment and you’ll feel him.
I look forward to the new version!
I do have a decorating dilemma. In my living room I need more seating and cannot find a way to add it. Is it possible for me to send pictures and let you look at the current layout?
Yes! Just email me at ann@onsuttonplace.com and I will try to help.
Cant’ say I blame you, Ann. I will enjoy 2 emails from you…I find that I click and really read (especially from you, have enjoyed your posts for years now, one of the first I began to follow) if there is not too much info – meaning from several individuals with tons of links.
Blessings to you! Jean S.
Please update me on your dog.
I thought one passed away, yet I see pics of a dog.
Will offer my support as you re group.
You thank us, but it is a two way street.
You have given me much and many adventures.
Thank you!!
Ann, you are a wonderful person, I almost feel like I “know” you personally. I wish you all the best in your new endeavors. As the kids say, you do you! And I know everything will work out for you…and for those of us who enjoy your blog. Glad we’ll still be hearing from you! Best wishes…best of luck!
Ann:
Give yourself GRACE as you work to find a new normal!
In all honesty, the things you are letting go are some of the very things that I often find overwhelming in my email! Along with you, I’m at a point in my life where a little more simplicity is needed and cherished.
Hi Ann Losing a parent is never easy. It doesn’t matter how old your parent was or how old you are. Its just very difficult.
I think the fact that you realize how tired you are is a good thing. Scaling back on what has worked in the past is not a bad thing. Your regular followers will be visiting your blog no matter what. I wish you well on this new journey. Take care of yourself
Good for you! You are one of the first bloggers that I followed and I will stay with you to the end. 💕💕
Oh my, Ann! Of course all your devoted fans (myself included) understand your need for change to a more peaceful and fulfilling life. We’ve all changed right along with you in our daily lives. So very glad you will still be with us, as I personally, love all your posts, ideas and inspirations. Change can be challenging, but in your case I think you’ll do fine knowing all your readers are backing you! Thinking of you, my friend!!
Betty
Thank you for bringing us up to date. We all need a few extra moments to reflect and enjoy each day.
Good for you! I’ll happy read whatever and whenever you choose to share. I’m a full time caregiver for my husband and also actively involved with helping tend to my 94 year old mom. It is exhausting!
I’m so happy you’re doing what feels right for you. Making content has to get difficult and probably a bit tiresome . I say GOOD FOR YOU!
I’ve loved your blog for your realness, sincerity and that we’re about in the same place in life so I could relate to you. I love your plan and hope it helps you love what you do even more.
I get it. We have seen the same with one of our favorite youtube creators. Multiple deadlines are exhausting. My wish is that you keep posting photos that feature liberty blue. Seeing it makes me happy.
I will never stop sharing my Liberty Blue!
Ann, your decision to take a step back is one that many of us content creators often consider. Slowing down from something that you love to do while realizing you need time for other pursuits (or none at all) does take time and reflection. I’m looking forward to what you do. I will enjoy whatever you chose to share. Best thoughts as you go forward.
Thanks for your note.. it felt so personal. That is what makes your site special. So happy you are not completely retiring and I will continue to look forward to anything you are up to posting.
Thank you for your honesty. Praying you find renewed joy with the new schedule and that you will feel less overwhelmed. Thank you for your content, it’s lovely!
Ann, the content in your emails is like sitting down with a friend. Thank you for the many years of fresh ideas, charming wish list, tasty recipes, and personal inspiration. Glad you are taking more time for yourself and family and will think fondly of you relaxing on your lovely patio. Will treasure the future emails. God bless you, Ann!❤️
All my best to you. It’s actually refreshing for your honesty. We all need to take time to know ourselves. Whatever you continue to do will be cherished. Also, losing you dad is something so very hard. Each day you learn a way to find his comfort but missing him never goes away. My annual chat on my dad’s birthday with a bowl of strawberry shortcake (his favorite birthday dessert) is what comforts me. You’ll find that as well.
Thank you for today and your future endeavors. They are very much appreciated. As our yoga instructor says at the close of each session,
“Today is a day of completion, I give thanks for this perfect day, miracles shall follow miracle and wonder shall never cease.” Namaste
I applaud your thoughtful decision which I know takes courage & strength. I lost my 33 yr old son in 2018, and my husband of 46 yrs last May. For me, the 1st two years of the grief journey brought intense mental fog & fatigue. I’m praying for you as you move forward with hope & purpose. DW
Taking time for YOU is so important. Loosing those you love puts your life into perspective. We know you love what you do, but just think of all the OTHER things you have space for now! We will all wait patiently for your posts and welcome all the tips and exciting content you will share. Thank you for including us in your life.
Warmest regards. 💕
It’s important to give ourselves grace, especially after losing a member of the family. I have lost both parents and my husband in a few short years, and it is starting to affect me more than I thought it would. As you stated, I miss all the talks and laughs. Greif isn’t on a schedule. Take care from a long-time reader and I can’t wait to see what you have coming up!
I lost both of my parents within 6 months of each other after my husband and I took care of them for years. I cried every day for a year. I lost the love of my life, my husband of 54 years, suddenly and unexpectedly, 15 months ago. Every day I tear up. I have a large home, 3 cars, and yard to take care of. It has kept me going. How? I decided to honor his memory by continuing to live the life that we built. I took a long driving trip by myself that we already had reservations for to our favorite place. I just returned from a girls’ trip to Paris with my daughter and young granddaughters. I have enjoyed On Sutton Place, however, I have only been skimming the Home Style Saturdays for some time because my style doesn’t mesh with the other contributors and there seemed to be quite a repeat of items from previous posts. I wish you all the very best.
Ann,
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. It’s so hard to let go, but as you stated, he was ready. Sending blessings your way.
After 14 years of blogging, make time for you now, whether it be redoing the Sutton place journal or taking a leave for a bit to see a part of the world on your bucket list.
I will be here waiting for your new ideas and recipes.
Sending hugs,
I give you credit for doing what is best for yourself. Many people would not and keep on plugging along. Your respite is well deserved.
Ann, I applaud you for making changes to your blog that will help you to navigate both your personal life and the lovely and helpful “life” you share with your followers more effectively. I relate so closely to what you said about continuing to miss your dad…it has been nine years since my dad passed and I still think about him (and Mom) every day. Thank you for sharing that.
I eagerly look forward to your new and revised blog…I already know I will love it!
Best wishes and gratitude!
Thank you for sharing such a personal post. I’m fairly new to your newsletters but have thoroughly enjoyed them. So many good ideas! I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. May the Lord continue to give you strength & peace as you continue on in your journey.
Good morning Ann, just as everyone else has mentioned to you… I totally understand the reason that you are making some changes after 14 years of creating and posting online content. I have been a long-time follower of yours and consider you a ‘dear online friend’ even though we’ve never met in person.
You continue to be an inspiration to all of us, and I always look forward to your emails. I have used many of your ideas through the years… printables, recipes, seasonal decorating, gardening, and the list goes on and on. I’ve saved several of your quotes, shopped your Amazon shop, and still have some of the pillow covers that you sold a few years ago. Thank you so much for all of your creativity and effort! It does not go unnoticed. We appreciate all of the time that you have spent in making our home and lives more beautiful through the years.
Looking forward to your continued ‘revised’ version of blogging. I hope you enjoy some ‘Ann time’🥰 ahead and that some of the pressures of keeping up with the online content and deadlines will lessen for you. Enjoy this next chapter!
Sally
You are such a class act that no matter what you decide to do – it will be fine and will be done with grace. I certainly appreciate all of your blog posts !
Hi Ann! I love your posts but, I can relate to wanting to slow down in life. I am a caregiver for my disabled husband and some days seem to bring sunshine and others darkness. We keeping going through life and follow God’s plan for us. Enjoy your break and look forward to your continuing posts. Love your recipes.
Ann,
I read your post this morning and I truly understand all the things you expressed. It’s like a new chapter in a book, but not sure where to start.
I lost my mother 5 years ago and miss her every day. The statement of losing your purpose in life is such a feeling that I can relate too. I’m still trying to figure it all out.
I look forward to your emails and enjoy all the topics, recipes and sweet posts you share for all to enjoy. It makes me smile and gives me a little something to look forward to reading and share with others
I wish you peace and enjoyment on your new journey. Allow yourself to relax.
You deserve it.
Blessings and love,
Janis
Good for you for doing what you need and want to do!! I’m so glad you will still be doing the two a week though. I really enjoy your take on life and enjoying the simple things!
Always love your posts. I am so happy we will still be hearing you. You always have content I love reading. Thank you!
Please continue to post your “What I’m Watching” segment. My husband and I have watched so many of your recommendations and have loved them all. Thank you! 💕
I will definitely keep this in mind, and share when I watch something wonderful!
Thank you for sharing, Ann. I lost my Mom in my early 30s. With a husband, 2 children, house, job, and church commitments, it took me well over a year to feel somewhat normal. I understand.
That being said, I will definitely miss your Wednesday Wish List. I will, however, continue to look forward to what you have to share.
Thank you. God bless you as you navigate this new season in your life.
I’s ok Ann. We just don’t want to lose you completely. Your blog is beautiful, inspiring, and fun to read. it has been a joy to get peeks into your home over all these years all the way up to the newly done patio! I know that there will still be little Ann treats ahead and that satisfies me.
You are a lovely FB friend.
Hello from Texas! I read through the comments and agree with what everyone else has said. Homestyle Saturdays and Wednesday wish list are also my least favorites. It doesn’t matter how often, I will always enjoy hearing from you.
Good morning Ann,
I look forward to your new abbreviated presence. I am retired, and appreciate a trimmed schedule for myself and completely understand your need to do the same.
I will be here along the way!
Carol
Ik am so sorry about your loss> Losing family , pets and friends are very difficult. I have always enjoyed your posts with colorful flowers and beautiful blue and white accesories. It just makes me happy to see the blue and white. I am glad you are giving yourself permission to take a little pivot. Enjoy today sip a cup of coffee.
I have enjoyed your blog from the start. I love your home ideas, printables and I try your recipes more than anyone. That being said, I always appreciate when someone steps back from what must be a demanding schedule to simplify in order to reach personal wellbeing. I pray that this move accomplishes this for you. I will be waiting for the your content however often you put it out because it is good stuff. I wish you peace.
Ann I just want you to know that your blogs and musings have never been clutter in my email box. I have enjoyed you immensely over the years. With my parents having been gone for several years, and me walking around the house talking to them I understand your feelings about the loss of your dad.
Giving yourself breathing room will probably make you even more creative–if that is possible. When I found your blog several years ago I was so delighted to find someone on the same page as me.
I look forward to having you continue to enter my life on Sundays and Wednesdays.
Hi Anne,
I was so scared you were sick and couldnt blog anymore. I have been following you for so many years I cant even remember..my Grandson is 12 and I know i was reading you before that. Honestly, I dont know how you do it, doing so many blogs in a week. I just love your pictures of your flowers, your homestyle pictures of your home, your gardening and your recipes. The simpleness of your decorating is so comforting. It is my style and I have copied it unashamely. I know how it is to lose a parent, My Mom passed last August and there isnt a day I dont think of her. So Ann, regroup and I know you will keep on sending us lovely info at your pace. GOD Bless you and be good to yourself. A Friend. Lorri
Dealing with life’s journey, change, aging and loss is never easy. I appreciate your candor and support the need to improve the quality of your life and mental health. I will continue to enjoy whatever content and advice you provide and truly appreciate your efforts. Take care of yourself.
Ann, I have enjoyed your blog for years. I totally understand your choice. Best of everything to you. You are so deserving.
I’ve learned so much from you, and I will truly miss the format but totally understand! Life is too short to spend on so much commitment and deadlines. Thank you for all the inspiration and especially the recipes. Everyone I’ve tried have been bell ringers!
Hi Ann, I’m looking forward to the changes you are making. To be honest, I will not miss the Wednesday or Saturday posts. They are the least interesting to me. I would love to read about what a typical day in your life looks like.
~ For I know well the plans I have in mind for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare, not for your woe, p;ans to give you a future full of hope. Jeremiah 29:11
Dear Ann…Your sense of beauty and grace always carries throughout your informative and inspiring content. I especially love your beautiful graphics and art work (especially your printables). I hope you will continue to share those talents with us.
Downshifting at 80 has allowed me to enjoy the scenery and the friendships so much more. Treasure the time.
Please enjoy your new path in health and happiness.
Sincerely, JeanE
Ann, I’m sorry for your loss, grief truly has it’s own time table and path.
I enjoy your posts, but understand we must change with life – will enjoy your posts no matter how many you send.
Take care of yourself.
Good for you, Ann! This is the time in your life to take care of YOU! Do the things that you enjoy and simplify when possible. I’m glad you’re not stepping away completely, I enjoy your blog and ideas 😊
Congrats!
I’m so sorry about losing your dad. However, I’m so happy for you about making these life decisions. Life is hard to make happen and you have made a most important step towards your future. I always enjoy your posts and I look forward to seeing your next life step.
Debbie
I will miss your posts, but will look forward to the ones you do put out. Good for you for taking time for yourself. Stop and smell the roses and take care of yourself. Enjoy your next chapter.
Thanks for sharing. I will continue to enjoy your posts and hope you enjoy the much earned time for yourself. We love you!
I understand totally! It’s important to put your self care first. To be honest, I only ever read your part of the blogs you partnered with anyway. Less is more. Simplify, simplify, simplify!
And yes grief changes us, and as we age, we realize our own mortality, and rethink our priorities. I’m so happy for you! Xo
So sorry for your loss. Support your decision to take more time for yourself. We all need that.
Thank you for your heartfelt thoughts and the changes you are making to simplify your life and work. I too, miss my parents, aunts, uncles – so much sometimes. And I just carry on. But I simplify too – no need to feel pressure to be everything all the time. I will look forward to your newsletters. I do like your style very much💙 Kelly
I completely understand and wish you the best. We’ll miss the posts, and even now, I realize when you haven’t posted because I look forward to each. I spent close to 30 years online and, at least, 20 of them where I blogged. I loved it, but the deadlines do become much and you find yourself constantly thinking – I need to get this post written up, get photos, content, etc. I love your content because it seems more down-to-earth. For most of us on a budget, your content had the most meaning.
Someone once said that as we get older, we’re at the phase of our lives where we lose more than we gain. When it comes to our loved ones, that seems true. My heart aches for you because I’m right there with you.
Amazing that anyone person can create fresh content so many times a week for 14!years
Take care of yourself. You can’t give fully from empty hands
Hi! Giant hugs from Oregon!
Thanks for sharing your heartfelt thoughts; I’m betting your readers will very much understand! For instance, my household has also lost several close family members in the past few years, with several others struggling with new and serious health issues. The world of blogging has changed so much too, and often not in the best of ways.
All of this is to say…
We get you! And we’re here for whatever the next chapter brings. Hang in there, and know that you’re already on the path to the next great thing.
Love, Corrie